Once upon a time, a girl met a boy in the halls of a rented Seventh Day Adventist church.
At the time, the girl thought the boy was nice, but shy, and that his little brothers were pesky, but cute. A certain little sister had just been brought home from Korea.
The boy claims he knew she was the one the minute he laid eyes on her.
He was in the eight grade. She was in the ninth.
Fast forward a few years, and the boy and girl are now friends. They laugh together, scoot their chairs closer together in Sunday School, and eat cheap church cookies after the morning service.
The boy is still too shy to speak up and the girl is dating a different boy. They might have continued on like this for years if not for their mothers. Yes, their mothers. (It seems as if they knew a little something about life and love too.)
Suddenly the two are dating. It's summer and their first date was the movie Face Off.
The girl heads off to her first year of college and then there is a little hiccup in their dating story.
Fall is in its full glory, and then, once again, the girl and the boy are back where they left off.
And they never look back.
Because now the girl knows too.
A couple years later, he gives her a pearl. A promise.
A year after that he upgrades that pearl to a diamond while the sun sets over Lake Michigan.
And a year after that, they are married on a perfect May day surrounded by their family and friends in a church with a steeple. The girls wear periwinkle.
Next comes a honeymoon, a first apartment.
And then a first house. A first baby. A second baby.
A second house. A third baby.
Eleven years later, they have created a life together. A life they can be proud of. It's not all roses and butterflies (there are hard things too), but mostly it's good. Really, really good.
Today, this girl is wishing that boy a very happy 11th wedding anniversary. The boy is now a man, and he is the best sort of husband, daddy, and partner-for-life the girl could have ever wished for.
And she loves him with all of her heart.
It's a beautiful story, isn't it?
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Friday, May 18, 2012
Sunday, June 19, 2011
forty ♥
June 19, 1971 these two crazy kids walked down the aisle.
So glad they did and so glad they chose love all of these years.
Thanks for the example of what it means to be married...
Happy 40th anniversary, Mom & Dad!
Thursday, May 19, 2011
the first decade {together}
2 people. 10 years.
A lot can happen in 10 years.
3,650 days.
There are the highlight reel worthy events: countless vacations, two moving days to new homes, three very special birth-days for three very special kids.
Ten Ludington Mackers.
Ten Ludington Mackers.
And then there are the things that don't quite make the scrapbook but are still notable: six jobs (three for each of us). 11 cars...and counting...
It's so simple to break down 10 years in some ways, so hard to capture it all in other ways. There is so much that lies just below the surface...joy, grief, laughter, tears...the big ups, the big downs...
...and then there is the ordinary. How many plain old ordinary days (some of my favorite kinds of days, mind you) make up those 10 years?
When I look back at this last 10 years I see the big stuff - the events that would make the highlight reel - but I also see a lot of the every day...
waking up every morning to a husband who loves me, who faithfully provides for our family day after day, who unloads the dishwasher in the mornings while he gets the kids breakfast, who still makes me laugh like he first did 14 years ago.
When I look ahead I see our kids growing up, our marriage growing stronger, more potential ups and more potential downs...and a lot more every day...
Oh, and I see the house on the lake with the two rocking chairs on the front porch (no more, no less...those chairs are just for us).
And I am grateful. Grateful for 10 years together, grateful for the hope of many more years together. Grateful that my kids have such a wonderful daddy. Grateful that I have such an amazing partner for life (our little joke). Grateful that we have countless little our little jokes.
And really, currently, grateful that we have a week long kid-free tropical trip planned next month.
Wednesday, May 18, 2011
well, aren't we aging well...
Tomorrow is our 10 year wedding anniversary and in honor of the milestone, I thought it would be fun to pull pictures out for each year we have been married. Only the most flattering shots were considered (much harder to find during the pregnancy/post-pregnancy years!)
We married young - we were both 21 when we walked down the aisle - and we have truly grown up together these past ten years.
It was a fun walk down memory lane looking back at these years together. It was also eye-opening to find how few pictures we have just the two of us together, especially since the babies started showing up. Note to self: take more pictures together in the decades to come!
June 2000
Year One
Bahamas | March 2002
Year Two
Spring Grove Park | September 2002
Year Three
Spring Lake | June 2003
Year Four
Christmas | December 2004
Year Five*
Lion's Game | October 2005
*exception to the Only The Most Flattering Shots Were Considered.
Sorry, Matt, that picture still makes me laugh.
Sorry, Matt, that picture still makes me laugh.
Year Six
WPHS Reunion | August 2007
Year Seven
Melting Pot | June 2008
Year Eight
Bahamas | January 2009
Year Nine
Chicago | August 2009
Year Ten
Chicago | September 2010
Here's hoping for timeless style and good hair in the decades to come.
Oh, and many more years of wedded bliss!
Happy anniversary, Hubby! I love you!
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